Hiii How are you ? I just wanted to ask a question I have a friend and she is very nice but when boys appear she is always whit the boys and when the boys are not here she come to her girl friends (like me) and she does that every time and is pissing everyone off but she wasn’t like that before. Should we talk to her about that or we stop being friend with her or do you have any other solutions ? ( Idk what to do)
I have a bestie who’s like that- boy obsessed LOL
Not as much as your friend by the looks of it, but for me I just deal with it. Its not worth losing a nice friend over yk? if shes like a distant friend I would say just slowly drift away from her. Causing a big scene might make a lot of drama that you don’t want
If she's not doing anything bad to you is ok I guess.. if it was me I would keep being friends with her but just as a distant friend not a close one
Unless she's being mean during that time or hurtful in some way, I don't think it matters much? It just seems like a aspect of her personality at the moment.
Unless you have concerns for her safety or something, I wouldn't bring it up. And if you do bring it up, talk to her without judgment. It's normal to want attention everyone does in some way. We just all go about it in different ways.
I would say everyone has given quite good points….. just if you decide to talk to her about it…… make it more of “you are not giving me much time” rather that “you ignore me when boys are around”……. you have to be careful with words cuz she might not have done that intentionally either……… could lead to a messy fight
Honestlyyy I agree with the replies above.. If she’s not hurting anyone, I’d just let her be and keep some distance lol. Maybe even lightly tease her about it as a joke
But if you’re close, maybe talk to her first without calling her a “pick me.” She might not even realize it
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