IMPORTANT QUESTION: Is this normal for best friend breakups? FT: A brief description of one of the people who have hurt me the most!!
Hey guys I have a question.. so like, friend drama right, and I have a question.
Is it normal for someone to get bored of someone they’ve been best friends with for 5 years, and then decide to oust said friend from the entire group, not tell them anything about it, exclude them, gaslight them, ignore them, talk behind they’re back act like you still care, say you still want to be friends when you don’t, and when they finally confront you about it and ask you to just be honest, you tell them you just wanted to ‘spare their feelings’ before proceeding to tell them that you don’t think about any of their time together, and that you won’t miss being they’re friend, even when they didn’t do anything?
Is it also typical for it to be from a friend who literally called you their “2nd best friend” for literally 4+ years, as well as someone you’ve literally gone on a trip with.
And is it normal for this to take place with friends who you literally would have trusted with your life, and is it normal for them to refer to someone’s autism as a “excuse”
And all of this happening in the span of a entire year, is that normal?
I know this sounds dramatic, but I genuinely need to know if this is just how people normally breakup with friends, or if this is abnormal and cruel?
I need everyone’s input. Thank you.
