relationship update part 43950482091543027503

Hi guys- so i currently need advice- and not from gemini- lol

so yeah. i talked to another of my friends (the only one who knows abt this and they told me: basically he’s acting rlly stupid rn but ur also rlly upset rn so ur not exactly thinking straight so thats why i was saying not to do anything rn but im telling u Lisa all u need to do is have one rlly big talk w him rn and i mean talk about everything and every feeling and also give him a bit of space bc when hes acting stupid like this and ur acting like u should be acting like a COUPLEEEE then it’s gonna be u initiating everything so for a little while stop texting first stop talking first and finding him first and everything and then you’ll be able to see how much he cares or not bc if u stop and he’s not initiating anything then u can see that he doesn’t care as much abt this as u and then that’ll be a valid reason to end it but don’t do anything u might regret later rn)

i told them a couple things abt how recently it feels like im the only one initiating anything- whether it be conversations, messages, or hangouts

and he started talking to bob again- my ex- who im not entirely comfortable with bc our relationship was kinda toxic and ended on bad terms.

and then it js seems when he messages me that he doesnt ig seem the same anymore.

last year whenever we were dating- he wouldnt have to be prompted to tell me hw cared- he’d say it out of his own volition- and we’d be really happy together, but now its not the same.

and idk he brings up other people im not comfortable with and i feel like im overreacting and idk what to do or feel anymore. i love him. so so so much. but it doesnt feel like he does. if this isnt clear enough you can ask and ill try to post the full story lol

yeah but thats it for now aita here?