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So. Long story short-
Hi guys! Idk if you’re bored, but I have TEA (heh).
I was dating a guy the first 2 months of high school (let’s call him Bob✨). Anyways- I was dating Bob- due to being peer pressured into the relationship. (side eye to the ppl who told me to.) I actually didn’t really like him- and I thought another guy was cute. (let’s call the other guy Tom)- but since I didn’t want to be called unloyal to Bob- I stopped thinking abt Tom- and I stopped talking to him as much. A couple weeks into the relationship- Bob started getting VERY possessive and being super super clingy. (It’s cute at first- but then it got really really bad)- Bob REFUSED to let me talk to any other guys or even LOOK and make eye contact with any guys. He started talking abt me behind my back to his friends and then I found out over fall break. His friend ended up being the one who told me that Bob wasn’t being a good bf. So I had enough and I broke it off. Then a couple months later, Tom and I started talking again as friends- he was really nice and I thought he was super cute- (but gng my family and friends all thought he was chopped ash💔) ANYWAYS. yeah. I started to like him again and found out that he liked me too- so we started dating. Another couple months passed and his parents found out. (his parents are like tiger asian parents iykwim). So we had to pretend to “break up”- we still dated in secret tho-
and then- the end of the school year came- and summer. I couldn’t talk to him over the summer bc his parents were still monitoring his phone for my texts- so then we didn’t talk. All of a sudden- I got a text from him saying that we actually needed to break up- that he was sorry- he “fell out of love”. it broke my heart and I ended up sitting on the floor for an hour crying. My parents found out and they were gonna beat his ass- (T-T). I convinced myself eventually that I didn’t like him anymore and then school. I saw him in the hallways and in one of my classes- and my heart absolutely melted. No matter what had happened over the summer and even though he broke my heart- I still loved him. He texted me and said that even though we broke up- he did it because of his parents- and that he wanted to be friends again. I told him that while he did break my heart- I STILL loved him. So I asked him this time. If we could date in secret. No one could know. Not even our best friends. just us. so we’re dating again. and I can’t fall out of love no matter what.
Side note: He still liked me over the summer- but he couldnt tell me that….
and uh- do you guys think I made the right decision? If you guys still have questions I’ll check the comments ever now and then haha
I’mma give you my in-depth opinion later cuz I’m sleepy af rn…. its 6 in the morning and I’m just about to sleep (found a peak manhwa… will tell ya later)…..
All in all congrats on your relationship ❤ may this rekindled love work out 🥰
Yummy tea thank you :3.. Oh and talking seriously about that, I'm so sorry you had to go through that :( I hope and wish for your happiness <3 that “Bob” sounds like a yandere irl💔 A reeeal nightmare (that's why I only like fictional ones)
TEAAA OMG I LOVE TEA
I like this Tom guy. Seems like a green flag, at least he told you he still liked even tho he had to “break up” with you!!
I dated a guy out of peer pressure and it lasted 2 weeks LOL he only texted, me, didn’t even bother saying hi
Heyyyy~ just woke up….. 4hrs of sleep but atleast I don’t feel like a zombie anymore 😌😅….. Dudeeee that Bob guy is just such a douchebag!!!!! So you are not to talk or even look at others but he’s there backbitching about you with his friends…… where tf did he get his audacity 😤 good thing you called it off….. peer pressure really does stuff like that….. constant teasing makes you feel like there’s something when there actually might not be much
As for Tom….. seems to be a good guy? I do wish he could’ve somehow given you a hint that his parents made him break the relationship…… made you experience heartbreak that rn you can’t even actually blame anyone for…….. on the whole good luck on your secret relationship be happyyyy 😘❤
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